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Finishing Touches
As soon as the film is
developed, you will want to start working with your photographer on
creating albums for you and your groom and for both sets of parents.
The final task of writing
thank-you notes is one you can complete alone—or share it with your
groom, anticipating the many collaborations the two of you have to look
forward to in the future.
Of your many tasks, the one
that matters most is to enjoy being the bride. To allow yourself this
pleasure, you’ll need to master the gentle art of delegating. Remember:
Though some people, such as members of your wedding party, know they are
expected to help you plan, you still want to use tact and grace when asking
for and accepting help.
A natural place to start
delegating is with your groom. But first, know that tradition already
dictates some tasks for him: purchasing the wedding bands, choosing his
groomsmen and their attire, buying gifts for his attendants, making
appointments for the marriage license and blood tests, organizing
transportation to and from the ceremony and reception, arranging for the
officiates payment, and planning the honeymoon.
Like many grooms, yours may
wish to expand his involvement. After all, the wedding is an expression of
you both. Some things you’ll want to do together, such as setting a budget,
drawing up the guest list, organizing your ceremony, composing your vows,
and registering for gifts. Other tasks you’ll want to tackle separately
before making the final decision together. The groom who is a gourmet cook,
for instance, might select the caterer; the bride who is a gardener might
enjoy finding the florist.
Then there will be
responsibilities that may be attended to by others. Consider each person’s
strengths and interests as you decide how to divide the to-dos. If your
father is a musician, for example, ask him to look for a band. You might ask
your mother or future mother-in-law to handle the publishing of your
engagement or wedding announcement in the newspaper. Your bridesmaids will
likely enjoy—and appreciate—helping you choose the dresses they’ll wear. Prior to purchasing, read the payment and shipping FAQ sheet.
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